A long over due post

In the early part of  February, a pivotal thing happened in my relationship with b. I officially collared him and claimed ownership of him. Some people who know us or of us, may have been surprised, think this a little soon or fast to do, but it really felt right for us. We had talked about it for awhile. So we really weren’t impulsive about it or rushed into it.

The collaring and owning is a very important stage for me. Not that we weren’t in a committed before, but this makes a more solid, confirmed element in the relationship with b.. The non vanilla side of it. The commitment to me is similar to committing to a marriage. This is how serious I take this and a way I prove that indeed, I want b to always be mine, to always serve me, be my man, pet, toy, whatever I want him to be for me. It also means I will always take care of him, his physical and mental well being. To not take his submission to me for granted.

I am so proud b is mine. I think about him all the time. I beam when I think of all the things he is to me and all that he does. And as a side note, I don’t understand Dommes who have more than one sub or slave. One is not enough for them. They feel the need for different ones to fill different needs. Or they just like collecting s types. I gave no interest in collecting. That does nothing for me at all. I guess I’m lucky in that I found someone, one person who is everything to me.

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